Category Archives: sex crimes

#KavanaughHearings: White Male Privilege Strikes Again

Yep…here we go again. No, I’m not talking about “here we go again” as far as a black man bringing up race. So white fragility has no place here. That means if it annoys you that I’m on this again, … Continue reading

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#BillCosby and #MeToo: Black Folks, Stop Using Unarmed Black Men To Minimize Sexual Assault

“WHAT ABOUT BLACK-ON-BLACK CRIME???” You know how much you hate hearing that, right? This usually comes after a white person kills someone black; most often, when white police officers are involved. This isn’t about black-on-black crime, though. We already know that most … Continue reading

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#MeToo: We Say Everything To Our Little Girls…But What Are We Saying To Our Boys?

My wife and I have two children. Our son is 12 and our daughter is 9. Now I won’t pretend to be “Holier Than Thou” here. Our daughter is a “Daddy’s Girl,” big time. She’s my princess. Nothing in the … Continue reading

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Here Are Some Reasons We Shouldn’t Be Angry At Those Who Don’t Speak Up Enough About Bad People

Back in 2003, I was deployed to Iraq. I moved from one unit to another and it wasn’t long before I made new friends. One friend in particular, a fellow soldier, confided in me that she was being physically abused … Continue reading

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How And When Exactly Did The Responsibility Become OURS?

There are so many instances where it’s clear who is responsible for something taking place. However, over time, that responsibility somehow completely shifts elsewhere. How exactly does this happen? And when? Here are a few such instances: Restaurant Tipping No, … Continue reading

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