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LADIES, Stop Thanking Men For “Showing That Not All Men Are The Same”

So, you’ve been mistreated by men. Understood. The ones you’ve been with have lied, cheated, etc. I get it. You have every right to be angry about that. But then, a man comes along and treats you well. Doesn’t lie, … Continue reading

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Why You Need To Stop Asking “How/Why Are You Single?!”

I was naïve enough to believe that this is something people actually grow out of, but not so. You see an attractive man or woman. Being interested in them is not so bad. The next obvious step would be to … Continue reading

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#Trump Supporters: He’s Not “Beating” Us. He’s Beating You

Most of us have known about that abusive relationship where the man is the abuser. Whatever your feelings are about the woman and whether she was an “enabler,” whether she “brought it on herself,” or wherever you want to go … Continue reading

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#NotAllMen: Why We As Men Need To Stop Saying, “Not All Men Are Like That!”

It never fails. Something is posted by either a man or a woman (more often women) where there exists a complaint of some kind about a man. It isn’t long before a man comes along to say some form of … Continue reading

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Here Are Some Reasons We Shouldn’t Be Angry At Those Who Don’t Speak Up Enough About Bad People

Back in 2003, I was deployed to Iraq. I moved from one unit to another and it wasn’t long before I made new friends. One friend in particular, a fellow soldier, confided in me that she was being physically abused … Continue reading

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Why I Never Say That People In Relationships Are “Lucky” To Have Their Significant Other

I honesty enjoy seeing people happy in relationships. Even though my wife and I have been married for more than 18 years, I still believe that relationships are not for everyone. So this isn’t in any way to force that … Continue reading

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#ManUp: How Do We Change Our “MAN UP” Culture?

Most of us know about the tragic events of Las Vegas about one week ago that sadly, has become far too common in this country. Mass shootings should be the exception to the rule. Not something that leaves us asking … Continue reading

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It Is Okay To Not Be “Strong” All The Time

These days, there seems to be such a need to be “strong” in one way or another. Having spent the last 19 years in the Army, this is something that is largely beaten into all of our heads. However, I’ve … Continue reading

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#TheFWord: Tired of Feminists? Here Are 10 Things You Need To Stop Doing

No, it’s not that F word, even though the thought of feminism may lead some to want to shout out that infamous one of the four-letter variety. Speaking as an adult male, feminism is absolutely necessary. It shouldn’t be in 2016, but as always, … Continue reading

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#ShemarMoore and Leaving #CriminalMinds: Ladies, Don’t Be Sad…Be Happy

“Is this a straight, black man about to blog about Shemar Moore? He’s probably happy that he’s leaving Criminal Minds. Yep, he’s a hater!” If that’s what you’re expecting, you may be disappointed. By now, just about every fan of Moore and CBS’s Criminal … Continue reading

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