Tag Archives: marriage

Why You Need To Stop Asking “How/Why Are You Single?!”

I was naïve enough to believe that this is something people actually grow out of, but not so. You see an attractive man or woman. Being interested in them is not so bad. The next obvious step would be to … Continue reading

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Why I Never Say That People In Relationships Are “Lucky” To Have Their Significant Other

I honesty enjoy seeing people happy in relationships. Even though my wife and I have been married for more than 18 years, I still believe that relationships are not for everyone. So this isn’t in any way to force that … Continue reading

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#MilitaryLife: Extended Separation Number SEVEN For My Wife and I

Last week, my wife, Jill, left for Europe and she is to be there for nine months. She and I are both in the Army. July will be 20 years of active duty service for me and she has been … Continue reading

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Our “Sweet Sixteen” Anniversary

   My wife and I got married on July 13, 1999, in Clarksville, Tennessee. 16 years and two children later, we are celebrating our anniversary here in El Paso, Texas. The Army is a big reason we are here at … Continue reading

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So, An Interracial Relationship Or Speaking Out About Problems Within Our Community Makes Me a “Self-Hating Black Person”? Takes One To Know One

It has come to my attention a good while ago that a lot of people out there are jealous of me.  Plain and simple.  However, I’m not referring to material possessions or things like that, because for one, that has … Continue reading

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