Tag Archives: victim

Ladies Annoyed With #MeToo: Please Stop Using “Victim” As A Dirty Word

Posted on January 22, 2018 by Robert P.

Speaking as a man, I won’t even try to imagine what women have gone through during the #MeToo movement in having to relive the many horrible and often tragic incidents of sexual assault that they’ve experienced, whether it was recently … Continue reading →

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Here Are Some Reasons We Shouldn’t Be Angry At Those Who Don’t Speak Up Enough About Bad People

Posted on October 12, 2017 by Robert P.

Back in 2003, I was deployed to Iraq. I moved from one unit to another and it wasn’t long before I made new friends. One friend in particular, a fellow soldier, confided in me that she was being physically abused … Continue reading →

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BLOG POST: #RAPE – Men, Stop Blaming The Damn Victims #NoMore

Posted on June 11, 2016 by Robert P.

If you were driving down the street and another driver intentionally rammed his or her car into yours, would it be fair for someone to say, “Well, it’s your fault for being out there. After all, you know that car … Continue reading →

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To Parents With Black Children: Don’t Raise Them To Believe They Are The “Victims” of Society

Posted on August 25, 2015 by Robert P.

Speaking as a black man, it is very true that there are quite a few societal disadvantages to being black in America and many learn very early on what these disadvantages are. Many of these disadvantages are deeply-rooted in society … Continue reading →

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