Author Archives: pplscrt79

No, You Did Not “Say It Out of Anger.” You Said It Because It Was On Your Mind

We hear it all the time. Many of us DO it all the time. You have a little argument and the next thing you know, everything you have ever done wrong in your life is thrown in your face. You are called … Continue reading

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Why You Need to Stop Using “In Moderation” and Other Excuses to Eat Unhealthy

In 2014, when I was deployed to Afghanistan, I mentioned to a co-worker that I was looking to lose some weight. I was 5’11” and about 215 at the time, so compared to society’s view of people who need to … Continue reading

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LADIES, Stop Thanking Men For “Showing That Not All Men Are The Same”

So, you’ve been mistreated by men. Understood. The ones you’ve been with have lied, cheated, etc. I get it. You have every right to be angry about that. But then, a man comes along and treats you well. Doesn’t lie, … Continue reading

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#DearWhitePeople: Thank You For “Getting It”

These days, it is absolutely necessary for people to speak up about racism. It’s probably no secret that the ones who do it the most are people of color. Racism is uncomfortable. This is no revelation. Talking about it, experiencing … Continue reading

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Why You Need To Stop Asking “How/Why Are You Single?!”

I was naïve enough to believe that this is something people actually grow out of, but not so. You see an attractive man or woman. Being interested in them is not so bad. The next obvious step would be to … Continue reading

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BLOG POST: “Both Sides” Is Nothing More Than An Excuse to Defend Trump and His Supporters. Enough

You didn’t say “BOTH SIDES” when Trump physically mocked the disabled reporter. You didn’t say “BOTH SIDES” when Trump was caught bragging about “Grabbing women by the pussy” as a 59-year-old. You didn’t say “BOTH SIDES” when Trump called African … Continue reading

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#Racism: Why Being Quiet Is Far More Dangerous

  It is a little after 1 a.m. CST, and I feel compelled to write this, even if not one person reads it. It is something that needs to be said and if it has been, bears repeating. Racism is … Continue reading

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